For those who do not understand The Game, it sounds extremely complicated. I will admit, it is complicated. Yet, to the participants who understand it, it comes naturally. However, I've had many friends shoot down this idea of The Game by merely coughing it up to playing "hard to get". This is definitely not the case. Players of this Game do not play hard to get, nor do they intend to. They simply are hard to get. We (as in females who participate)are often labeled as crazy bitches who control every aspect of the relationship. By popular belief, we scavenger for those males that put up a fight in our presence and attempt to hold their own, even if merely by accident.
1. Normal Boy meets Crazy Girl.
2. Normal Boy falls for Crazy-Yet-Interesting Girl.
3. Life becomes hell on adrenaline for Normal Boy as Crazy Girl assumes the role of the devil.
So, here I go, debunking a well-known myth. I (along with other girls who are aware of The Game) am not a psychopath who tries to control every aspect of a guy's life. Nor do I want to. On the contrary, I actually take the road of sitting back, relaxing, and seeing what develops. Whatever happens, happens. Simple as that. Contrary to prior thought, I do not plant remote mines under my boyfriend's car, or search through his text messages, or pick a fight with every girl that talks to him. Why? First off, because it makes a girl look jealous, clingy, and controlling. All the features I do not have. Secondly, it is the first and fastest way to lose him. So, before writing us off as primadonnas who won't settle for less than a guy with a six pack and a wad of cash, why not getting to know us and see that we don't have a list that we check off in order for us to look at you twice. If you give us a fair chance, we'll give you one as well.
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